Does true love without sex exist or it's a fantacy?
yayaavar:
Don't we we crave and long for Love.Lucky are those who get it and jealous are those who don't get it.
Presently Love is in the air in the current Valentine week(of courses imported from the west)but which also falls during spring season(Basant Ritu) known for Love in India which culminates in Phagun(Holi) when even elders also become the object of love.
We have love love love every where,any where.
I recently read a debate on the subject elsewhere on the net with diverse views.I am posting the thread expecting wide ranging debate who care for love.
It is said thaty men are from Mars and women from Venus. Women have sex to feel loved and men find love for sex. So, are love and sex inextricably linked? Can love exist without sex? Quite often, a woman considers love as the foundation of intimacy and a man considers sex to be the ultimate expression of love. Understanding how each views sex is important for sustaining a relationship and keeping love alive. But what is it that drives women closer to men - is it love that leads to lust or vice versa?
Come on post your views
Sudershan:
I think love is a multifaceted relation - trust, camaraderie, belief, dedication, care, possessiveness and many such façades complete it. Sex is one such façade, it not only completes the feeling of in love physically but also emotionally for both in love.
I feel every relation is special in its own way and we can't generalise but I feel sex happens to be inseparable part of being in love, but again its not rare to find two people in love with no physical contact. I have seen and heard of couples who due to physical distance, health problems or for some other reasons have not had any physical contact for years yet their love remains intact....
kev:
My views on the subject is that sex is a sign of a healthy marriage. But if a married person is not having an active sexual life with his spouse, it doesn't necessarily mean that they are not in love. Even if either partner discovers his companion is sterile/frigid, if he really loves him/her, he won't leave her and walk out of the relationship = real love
Lesbians = no 'real' sex as such = real love
Love might or might not culminate in sex - an intimate expression of ur feelings- but even if it doesn't, this does NOT nullify the love that the 2 concerned parties share, thus love and sex are complementary to each other. Sex has a physical base while love has more to do with emotions & feelings :)
seshamurthy:
Kev U hv put it nicely. :clap2: :clap2: :clap2: :thumbsup2: :thumbsup2:
mandeep333:
Let us be honest. True love between opposite sexes cannot exist without sex. Sex is the greatest driving force. It is the epitome of love-a zenith reached by both the indulging partners. AND it is very natural. We can see the purity of love when a male lion fondles with his offspring(Cub) and the mother Lioness rejoices. The same Lion may brutally kill some other lion's cubs only to arouse sex in the lioness and consequently promoting his own 'blood' generation. But, sometimes we find that only sex does not become a parameter of love. We can have sex with male/female prostitutes. That is urgent physical need of one and monetary need of the other. We should not be hypocritical. A man loves his wife & vice versa. But, if there is sexual dissatisfaction in anyone, there are bright chances to have satisfaction outside the marriage institution i.e. extra-marital relation. AND it should not now be considered as anti-social practice as the science has developed so much & enlightened us. It may become a matter of 'manly pride' or woman's natural jealousy. Hence sex and love are complementary and supplementary to each other. :)
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